Sleep is precious and so are our children. Yet there appears to be a huge conflict in being able to negotiate a good quality nights sleep with the arrival of a new baby. Amidst all the conflicting advice on how to get your child to sleep us parents often feel torn between what’s best for our children, mother’s pearls of wisdom and medical advice. In the mean time where does sleep fit in to all of this? More importantly how are we able to truly enjoy our children when they are overtired and over stimulated and we are sleep deprived. What we really want to know is do we have to resign ourselves to years of sleepiness nights and confusion about the right method to enable our children to sleep well.
I studied Psychology because I had a great desire to help people, so when I started my company Naturally Nurturing sleep clinic my aims where to help parents with sleep and behavioural issues with their children, I had found my dream role in life. I say role because I do not see it as a job, I enjoy what I do and I love the challenge, the children and the positive change that each family makes once they have embarked on the journey to changing their baby's sleep problems.
Although my clinic is a private one, I am still a great believer in helping people, especially families, and not just the ones that can afford to pay for a personal service of baby sleep advice. I wanted to devote my time sending out the message “there is an alternative to the controlled crying method” , you do not have to “train your child” as advocated by some experts to get your chid to sleep the way that fits in with your lifestyle. I wanted to shout this message at the highest roof tops. Because every family deserves the right to have a choice about the type of method they would like to use and have it work.
However, so many of my clients had been dismayed when visited by their health visitor because they only advised CC, they wanted to find a way that did not involve distress, for them or their child. Their Health Visitors could not provide that answer and so the parents came to me. You see our method tries to find the underlying reasons for the sleeping habits and solve them rather than just applying regimes blindly. We emphasis respect and trust for parent and child, we pride our selves in that we treat each family as unique individuals. At present I am spending my spare time, when I am not looking after my four children and their Father giving voluntary talks in my local community to try and spread the word, to try and bridge the gap that exists between what to do when all the other tried and tested methods don’t work for your family. So I write this article in the hope of trying to inform more parents that I physically can’t reach so they can make a positive change within their families. I have enclosed the main principles of my method.
“Confident parent Comforted child” the new and alternative method to solving sleep problems
NB: These principles should be used as part of a complete evaluation including full assessment, sleep diary and interview with each family.
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Chireal Shallow is the founder of Naturally Nurturing sleep clinic. Naturally Nurturing children’s sleep and behaviour clinic was founded in 2004 .The idea to form the clinic was born from the real need to offer hands on practical advice and support to all parents. Chireal’s experience of raising her own family of four, including a set of twins, her background in psychology and cognitive behaviour theory meant that she felt a great sense of responsibility to inform parents that they no longer needed to suffer with sleep and behavioural issues. Chireal along with her team run a clinic providing practical help/support for parents experiencing difficulty establishing sleep patterns for their children. Particular emphasis is placed on parents of multiple birth children, having recognised the unaddressed need for such support. In addition she has devised an extremely successful attachment style methodology that moves away from the one size fits all approach.