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Helping Your Child Study Smart for an Exam

Forget learning styles, it is all about memory style!

Let’s face it, a exam is more about remembering information then learning it. Yes, they have to understand it in the first place, but when it comes to studying, it is about how your child can best remember and retain the information. It is the retention of the information that becomes critical when studying for exams.

This is how I help teenagers improve their grades by helping them understand how they best remember information. Susan sent her 13-year-old to me. Grace was doing OK at school; however her parents wanted to get her into a better school and to do that her grades needed to improve. Grace was enrolled in one of my coaching programmes and by the end of the programme her predicted C grades had become A and B, with a 100% pass rate in science, a previously disliked subject.

When you know your child’s learning or memory style you can help them to help themselves.

Memory style is the way in which you remember information most easily, knowing this can make studying much easier. It is the way we take in and memorise information.

People remember in four ways, through reading, listening, doing or graphics and we will discuss each one.

Reading

These people learn mostly by reading and writing; this is predominately the style taught at school. When studying, they read and make lots of notes. This style is known as verbal memory.

Listening

These people learn most by hearing something spoken to them. In class they are likely to enjoy discussion where people are talking and get bored when there is writing to be done. When studying they may read and talk out loud or tape themselves and listen at a later date. They will also ask others to question them so they can speak their answers. This style is knows as tonal memory.

Doing

These people learn by movement in some way. These will be the students constantly fidgeting at school, they cannot sit still. In studying they are likely to walk around and make up rhythmic songs and poems. These students may benefit from studying with either the TV or radio on and also may hum or sing while they are studying. This style is known as rhythm memory.

Graphics

These people learn by seeing pictures, tables or graphs. When studying, they are likely to draw pictures and put information into tables and boxes, they also will enjoy using mind maps. This style is known as design memory.

Action

Think of a time that your child was studying recently and the methods they used.

Which one of these four do you think they are and why? Ask you’re teen and see if you are right.

Write a list of 5 ways you can support your teenager’s learning style now you have discovered what it is. For example, telling your child to switch off the TV while studying may not be the right thing to do, depending on their learning style.

So, if we go back to Grace, she was typical in that her Mum made her do her homework in a room all by herself with no noise. Grace found this very hard and as we worked together we found that she was very high in rhythm memory. So we began to do things like introduce a radio into the room where she was studying, studying while walking around the room and making up songs and poems. The results were incredible. As for the science exam, she made up a song about the valance table while playing the guitar at the same time — it worked a treat and is just what someone with high rhythm/doing memory needs.

I should know, as this is my greatest learning style. When I was in the police, I learned every piece of legislation to a song and I can tell you, it took me all my might not to sing the charges to someone as I was arresting them! In fact if you asked me now, I could still sing the Theft Act to you. You play it, I’ll sing it!

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Written by

Sarah Newton
Parent Coach Specialist

Dubbed a family peacemaker for her ability to ease family conflict and bring people closer together, Sarah’s best known for her TV series ‘My Teen’s A Nightmare – I’m Moving Out’.